the Winskill Weekly
"Alone we can do so little, together we can do so much."
This one time, at band camp...
However, when it comes to taking a risk where I might be a more visible failure, say, on a stage or in front of a crowd or to learn something that pushes me outside of my comfort zone or something that I am not especially interested in or motivated to do, well, that can be a different story. I worry that others will laugh at me, or mock me, or say horrible things about me. I don't like to be put out on display for other's amusement. In fact, I sometimes shut down. I'm done- nothing to see here, folks, cause I'm not going to give you any more ammunition to use against me.
Can any of you can identify with my feelings or fears? How many of our students feel the same way? And yet, every single day, we ask kids to do things that are new for them, or difficult, or that are so far out of their comfort zone that they simply freeze. And we ask them to take those risks publicly, in front of their peers. When some balk or resist, or shut down completely, we may see it as being disrespectful or non-compliant, when in reality, they may be using the only coping mechanism they have. I'm not suggesting that we just move on and not address the issue. Instead, what if we made it a point to help that student find a different way to cope with their fears? What if we used his/her strengths to attack this new skill or concept? We don't all learn the same way- do our students have to show us the results of their learning in exactly the same way?
On Tuesday, I will be attending the middle school/high school band and choir concert. One of the recent assignments given to the middle school band students was to give one of their parents four lessons on how to play their instrument. Let me first clarify that I actually love the assignment. I love the creativity behind it, the authenticity of having band students teach someone else, the whole process of their reflecting about the experience in a journal, the "let's try this a different way" method that Mrs. Miller is using. That's the educator in me speaking. The parent in me will tell you a different story. My son plays the saxophone, my daughter, the clarinet. During the week, I am the sole parent in our home, so I have had 8 lessons- four on the sax and four on clarinet.... in case you are not familiar with those instruments, they are not particularly alike. What I have been taught to do with one instrument, I have been told not to do on the other. I was not in band when I was in school, for good reason, I have discovered. When I say that this assignment has caused me great anxiety, it is not an exaggeration. My heart accelerates, my hands get sweaty, I get snippy in my responses to those around me, my stomach churns. Literally. The lessons are just a part of this ordeal. The other part is that the parents are "invited" to be a part of a special band performance at the spring music performance. On Tuesday. In two days. Did I mention that it has me totally freaked out? I think I may be sick on Tuesday. Or have a late meeting. Or run out of gas on my way to the concert.
But in reality, I won't do any of those things. I know that there were many wonderful reasons behind this assignment: To help the band students understand how challenging it can be to teach someone else, to help them see just how far they have come as musicians, to acknowledge the fact that we cannot teach what we do not know, to give parents insight into just how hard it can be for our children to learn this new skill, to give us a taste of the risks that our children are being asked to take when they perform for an auditorium full of people... As a person who believes wholeheartedly in having a growth mindset, whose own children are willing to take those risks and put themselves out there, how can I do anything other than take my seat up on that stage on Tuesday evening? Just know that for those of you attending Tuesday's concert, you won't be amazed by anything other than the patience and fortitude that Abby and Jack have shown by completing this assignment. Well, that and maybe the fact that I actually had four lessons and I am still that bad.
A Look Ahead at March
3/09/2015 Have a Marvelous Monday!
RtI 3-5 @ 3:30 in Tina’s room DB (Moefu) KC (Roesch) ML
FOW Mtg @ 6:30
3/10/2015 Have a Terrific Tuesday!
POPS mtg @ 3:30 in the computer lab
Culture Club mtg @3:40 in District Office
3/11/2015 Have a Wonderful Wednesday!
PBIS Mtg @ 3:30 in Miranda’s room
School Board Mtg @7:00
3/12/2015 Thankful It’s Thursday!
3/13/2015 Have a Fantastic Friday!
3/16/2015 Have a Magical Monday
RtI K-2 @ 3:30 Jodi’s room: OR (Schaefer) , QP (Schaefer) AL (Chambers) LJ (Ingebritsen)
3/17/2015 Talk Like You’re Irish Tuesday!
St. Patrick’s Day – Wearin’ O’ the Green
9:00 Admin Mtg
3/18/2015 Have a Wonderful Wednesday!
Faculty Leadership Mtg @ 3:30 in library
3/19/2015 Thankfully Thursday
3/20/2015 Have a Fantastically Fun Friday!
End of 3rd Quarter
Beach Party Day
Staff meeting at Copper Dome
3/23/2015 Have a Marvelous Monday!
RtI 3-5 @3:30 in Tina’s room TS
Leah out of district- WEMTA
3/24/2015 Have a Terrific Tuesday!
Leah out of district- WEMTA
3/25/2015 Have a Wonderful Wednesday!
No meeting scheduled
3/26/2015 Have a “Tho Much to Share About Our Kids” Thursday! (my apologies to Jen E for creating an epidemic of staff with speech needs.)
World Epilepsy Day- Wear Purple Day
(Feel free to wear jeans & change before your conferences begin)
3/27/2015 No School for Students / AM Conferences
3/30/2015 Have a Marvelous Monday!
K-2 RtI in Jodi’s room
3/31/2015 Time for a Terrific Tuesday!
5th Grade Music Program @ 2:00