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Online Relationships
When texting or video chatting with someone, never do something that makes you uncomfortable like if they ask you to send a inappropriate picture or video of yourself don't do it. When you don't want to text this person anymore they can probable use those pictures or videos against you.
If you ever decide to meet this person in real life
Do:
- Make sure someone knows you are meeting this person
- Make sure you meet somewhere with lots of people
- Bring your own vehicle to the meeting
- keep everything that belongs to you close at all times
- bring something moblie with you like a phone
- contact someone as soon as you finish your date
- don't drink alochol while on the date
- Leave if you feel uncomforatable
Don't:
- keep the meeting a secret
- go to a place were there isn't anybody else around like someones house
- get drunk
- let someone come pick you at your house
- leave your belongings unattended
- don't contact someone after the meeting
Many marriages are from online dating websites and most of them live very happliy together. People were very carful and used most of the tips I gave above. Having an online relationship is very dangerous if you aren't careful about how you react to these situations.
Story 1: leaving when feeling uncomfortable
The Date: "On my first date with this 30-year-old guy, we joked about how good we were at a certain video game we played together online. Obviously, we were both like, 'I can totally beat you,' and all that schoolyard trash talk. So, for our second date, he thought it was a great idea to take me to Dave & Buster's in Times Square — as in, Dave & Buster's. As we're eating (seriously, Dave & Buster's), one of the workers comes around and asks to take a complimentary picture so he can put it on a photo keychain. Neither my date nor I was down for this super-insanely awkward photo, so we kinda just looked at each other for what seemed like the longest second ever until one of us finally nodded at the photographer."
"We take the picture and the photographer comes back five minutes later with our mugs plastered on a keychain. Yes, it looked as awkward as it felt. But, what's even more awkward is when I asked if he wanted to keep it (because homie knows I certainly didn't), he said, 'No, why would I want a picture of your ugly face." So I got up and went home. We Never saw each other again.
Story 2: gone wrong
I met this guy on match.com and we have our first date at his house. When I walked into his house we sat on the sofa and talked. After we ordered a pizza and settled in to watch the first movie, he paused it, turned to me, and started ranting about how women are ****** and how hard it is to be a rich guy. I was really uncomfortable and told him so, and he apologized and resumed the movie. Five minutes later, same thing happened again. I firmly told him that I'd like to go home, so he said he'd drive me.