What will the outcome be ?
a midsummer nights dream . (sydney freeman)
PLEASE HELP !
i have read your column for years , but i never thought i would be writing to you . i've tried going to meetings of "women who love too much" but im still hurting , so i thought maybe you could help me . my problem is that the guy i love doesn't want to be in the same room with me ... and to top that off , hes in love with my bestfriend ! i go above and beyond to try an steal his heart , but he refuses to accept it . what is some good advice you could give me to help me get over him / move on .
Advice Letter .
I'd just like to take a moment and thank you for reading my column . I'm glad to know that my advice actually help people . Anyways , it seems like you're having quite a problem there . I would be happy to help
To start off , you could give up on him . you know ? There are plenty of fish in the sea . If you move on , you could be open to any guy who is willing to treat you how you deserve to be treated ... and yeah I know it isn't easy but it takes time . A positive outcome can be , like I previously stated , you can find a better guy . A negative outcome will be it'll be tough and you'll be heartbroken but you may finally , realize that he isn't worth the fight anymore .
Another possible way to get over him would be to tell him how you really feel and let him think it over . If you give him enough time , he'll realize how much he means to you and give you a chance . I things go differently then that's his problem . He's missing out . Just try this ; give him time to think , sit down and talk about it or ask a friend what to do . Maybe deep down inside , he feels the same way .
To finish this problem , I honestly recommend to get over him . If he continuously treats you like he does , kick him to the curb girl (: