Mommy I Wet The Bed
Children and Bedwetting
Bedwetting
Bedwetting children are embarrassed.
It's is important to let your child know that bedwetting is part of their development, and that with age and proper bodily controls they will be able to control their bladder.
Bedwetting children have low self esteem.
Children who experience bedwetting believe that it is their fault, and compared to their friends they "suck". It is important for parents to offer emotional support, and not punishment. When a child wets the bed, tell them that it is okay and that it is not their fault. When they wake up to a dry bed, congratulate them and tell them to keep up the good work. Remember words carry a lot of meaning.
Bedwetting children are alone.
The shame and guilt that a bedwetting child feels is comparable to the pain that they feel when being bullied, or when they are not successful in school. This can cause a child to go into isolation. Bedwetting children avoid social interaction with their peers, especially sleep overs. As parents it is your responsibility to bring comfort to your child. You can start by asking your doctor about desmopress, a synthetic hormone that reduces the amount of urine produced by the body.
Be Patient, Be Aware, and Be Supportive of Your Child.
Ask Your Doctor What Helps!
- Behavioural therapy which consists of motivational techniques help remove the negative thoughts that your child associates with bedwetting.
- Medication treatment using desmopress can help reduce your child urination at any given time, use it daily or for special occasions.
- The moisture alarm clock can alert both you and your child of the first drop of moisture, which can help your child wake up in time to finish urination.
Fore more information on these methods please contact your family doctor.