Dear Jazmine

Love advise from Jazmine Mohamed

Confused Girl That Needs Help

Dear Jazmine,

I have read your column for years, but I never thought that I would be writing to you. I've tried going to meetings of "women who love to much" but I'm still hurting, so I thought maybe you could help me. My problem is that the guy I love doesn't want to be in the same room with me, and he loves my best friend. Every time I am near him he wants me to go away. He doesn't love me at all and he is supposed to marry my best friend.Please help me.


Girl Who Needs Help

Dear Girl Who Needs Help,

Thanks for writing to Dear Jazmine.

The two problems you have are that a guy you like ignores you, and he's going to marry your best friend. Boy you're in serious trouble.

The main problem is that a guy you like ignores you; he doesn't care about you, he's embarrassed to be by you, and he hates you. That probably means you should just forget about him. You can't force a guy to love you. The pro is that you can find a guy who truly loves you. The con is that the guy who loves you won't be him.

If you love him to much to let him go then tell bad rumors about your best friend so he hates her. The pro is that he won't like her anymore, but the con is that if your friend finds out she will hate you, and he might find another girl that's not you.

Whatever you choose to do remember the consequences. I hope your crush ends up loving you. Good luck.