For The Lost Hopeless Lovers
Amie Le
Lost Lover #1 Crazy Nut Squirrel in Love
I have read your column for years, but I never thought that I would be writing to you. I've tried going to meetings of "Women who love too much" but I'm still hurting, so I thought maybe you could help me. My problem is that the guy I love doesn't want to be in the same room with me. He hates me, but I want him. I keep chasing him, but he keep running away. I know he loves me, but he doesn't know it yet. I don't know what to do! Should I keep chasing or stop everything that I'm doing? Please Help!
Sincerely,
Crazy Nut Squirrel in Love
"Sorry, You're not my type....."
In this picture, Helena is represented by the Charmander (the orange dragon) which is trying to win Squirtle's heart ( the blue turtle) which is Demetrius. Squirtle eventually tells Charmander that he's not her type and rejects him,and then leaving Charmander in a vulnerable pathetic state of misery. Well Demetrius is doing the exact same thing to Helena, but Helena is more hopeless and keep chasing Demetrius. Demetrius is hurting Helena ten times more than Squirtle is hurting Charmander!
I would give MY HEART for you:(
Helena is particularly like this guy because she loves Demetrius so much that she'll do anything for him. She'll pick him over her friends. She'll do the unthinkable. She'll rip out her own heart out of her chest for him, but he'll never do the same thing for her.
Hope in a little broken-heart<3
No matter how much she gets hurt or scolded at, she'll always have that hope in heart that she'll be with her Demetrius. Demetrius could throw her into a pit full of tigers, and she'll would think what he did was a act of compassion. She is so love blind that she'll would go find the City of Atlantis for him. Even though Demetrius would never appreciate her, she will have that little hope in heart wherever she goes because she will always love him.
Love Advice to Lost Lover #1 Crazy Nut Squirrel in Love
Love Advice
Your problems are colossal with your lover, Demetrius. What I understand from your letter is that you're a little obsessive and don't understand people's limits. Also, that you can be passed off as a crazy pathetic girl in love but you have a lot of good qualities like: loyalty, determination, kindness, and optimism. Well I'm gonna help you with your problem, so listen to me and you should be happy in no time!
One way you can be chirpy and perky is to find someone else. You'll be so much happier with someone that actually wants to be with you than to be chasing a guy who is in love with someone else and that is not interested in you. The sad part is that you lose Demetrius and he'll find someone too, but you'll be too busy being happy with your new boo!
Besides finding someone new to be joyful, you can give Demetrius time to think about his feelings and sort out his problems too. If you give Demetrius time, he might realized cruel and hostile he been to you and actually give you chance at love with him. Even though you could give him time, he might feel the same way, or might even forget you, but that's the chance you have to take.
Well I hope my advice help you and that you'll be happier with whatever you chose to do with your love life. Toodles!
Sincerely,
Candy Love Expert