First Date Advise

For Men and Women- Maliq Miller, Derrisha Wilson Hr. 7th

Why people date?

People date because they want to get out and experience new things with new people. Dating gives people the opportunity to develop social skills and compare their personalities and characteristics.

5 Pieces of Advice for Men

  • Plan It- have a set time and location for the date.
  • Pay- pay for the date even if she offers.
  • Be confident- don't be nervous. she said yes!
  • Dress to impress- wear appropriate attire for the occasion.
  • Follow up- text or call to how she is doing and how she liked the date.

Advice for asking questions.

  • listen more than you talk- Don't hog the conversation.
  • Take it slow- ask basic questions before asking personal questions.
  • Don't dump- don't give all personal business when first getting to know each other.
  • Genuine interest goes a long way- Provide space for the full expression of information.
  • Ask interesting questions- questions should lead to a comfortable conversation.

5 Pieces of Advice for Women

  • Relax- don't try to be someone else. Be yourself!
  • Establish boundaries- don't share too much on the date.
  • Let him lead- if he wants to pay, let him pay!
  • Turn off your phone- your date is more important than your friends right now.
  • Be present- show up and show interest in your date.