Hopeless Love

Anh Nguyen

Despite Love

Dear Dr. Anna,

I have read your column for years, but i never thought that i would be writing to you. I've tried going to meeting of "Women who love too much" but i'm still hurting, so i thought maybe you could help me. My problem is that the guy i love doesn't want to be in the same room with me. He hate me so much and always tell me mean things. He's in love with my best friend. I'm always jealous of her. I'm in love with him so much that no matter how cruel he's to me, i always will love him. What should i do? Should i tell him that my best friend and her love is going to runaway?


A Despite Girl Who Need Love

Advise For You

Dear The Despite Girl Who Needs Love,

Thank you for writing such a pitiful letter to me. I'm sorry that you've been through a lot. Your life is seriously lost in "Love Heaven". You must be crazily in love with this guy, so here's some advise.

First you should forget about the guy that you're in love with. He's rude to you, said cruel things to you, and also left you alone in a scary wood with all kind of monster. I know that you'll always love him no matter what. But it would be great if you can move on and find another guy who truly love you.

Also you shouldn't stalk your lover. He's going to get creeped out by you. If you want to stay by his side, start over as a friend. Be normal, be happy, and especially be yourself around him.

Lastly, don't be a tattle tale. He's going to think that you're a type who ruined people relationship. Just keep things the way it should be and he might fall for you.

Just think carefully over my advise. I wish you luck in your love. Once again thank you for writing me a letter.


Dr. Anna