KN Counseling Newsletter
CHARACTER WORD OF THE MONTH:
If your child earned Student of the Month for Character for the month of April, May, August, or September, they will be recognized at the KNHS Varsity Football game on October 8th. Families will receive free admission to the game. Please be there by 6:20!
KNE - Amie Wheeler & WE - Hailee Wickham
IMPORTANT REMINDER FOR ELEMENTARY FAMILIES:
Parents please pack an extra set of clothes in your child's backpack in case of illness or accidents! Thanks!
KNMS - Heather Wallace & Taylor Morrison
Important KNMS Dates:
SIGNS OF SUICIDE PRESENTATION (more info will be emailed to families):
- 6th Grade - October 4th
- 7th Grade - October 5th
- 8th Grade - October 6th
KNHS - Laura Kennedy & Melissa Steerman
- PSAT for Juniors - October 13th (deadline to register is September 15th; cost is $18)
- ACT Oct 23rd Test Registration Deadline - September 17th
- Signs of Suicide Presentation - TBD (watch out for an email regarding this presentation)
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HOME DISCUSSION CHALLENGE - MENTAL HEALTH
Just like adults, many kids — infants and toddlers included — are plagued with mental health problems. In fact, nearly one in five children has a mental illness, and for some of these youths, the disease interferes significantly with their daily lives.
But according to recent research from the American Psychological Association, young children are less likely to get mental health treatment than their grownup counterparts. Why? Too often, kids are expected to "grow out" of their emotional problems.
That means it's up to the parents not to ignore any instinctive sense that their child's emotional health is at risk. If you suspect any signs of mental illness such as ADHD or depression in children, it's important to seek help from an expert in kids' psychology.
What To Do When Something is 'Off'
"Most parents want to believe that their kids are doing okay," says psychiatrist William M. Klykylo, MD, professor and director of the division of child and adolescent psychiatry at the Wright State University School of Medicine in Dayton, Ohio. "But if you feel that something is going on or if someone you trust — a teacher or counselor, a minister or other clergy person, or a coach — says ‘I've got a feeling about your child,' pay attention."
The signs of mental illness in children vary by age and type of illness, with some psychiatric disorders appearing even in preschool years. However, two warning signs tend to cross over into all categories and signal that you should consult with an emotional health professional experienced in kids' psychology:
- Extremes or peculiarity of behavior for the age and gender of the child, such as being significantly more hyper, aggressive, or withdrawn
- Sudden, hard-to-explain negative changes in behavior, such as a steep drop in grades
But many children have more than one mental illness — which makes getting a diagnosis even more challenging.
- Behavior problems in preschool or daycare
- Hyperactivity way beyond what the other kids are doing
- Trouble sleeping
- Persistent nightmares
- Excessive fear, worrying, or crying
- Extreme disobedience or aggression. Because it's often within a child's nature to disobey or intrude on a playmate's space, an excessive degree of this behavior is what should concern you, says Dr. Klykylo, such as deliberate destructiveness or hurting peers or animals.
- Lots of temper tantrums all the time
- Persistent difficulty separating from a parent. Klykylo acknowledges that many children experience separation anxiety at first; there could be a problem if this goes on for months.
Klykylo adds that what you might think are signs of mental illness may in fact be symptoms of another condition entirely, such as a sleep disorder, but that you should still seek medical help.
At this stage, Klykylo suggests looking at your child's relationships as a good external barometer of well-being. A child might only have one or two friends, but it's not the number of friends that you want to watch — it's the type of friends and how well your child maintains those friendships. If one drops off, that's an issue, says Klykylo.
Other possible signs of mental illness include:
- Excessive fears and worries
- Extreme hyperactivity
- Sudden decrease in school performance
- Loss of interest in friends or favorite activities
- Loss of appetite
- Sudden changes in weight
- Excessive worry about weight gain
- Sudden changes in sleep habits
- Visible prolonged sadness
- Substance use or abuse
- Seeing or hearing things that are not there
Klykylo notes that from a parent's perspective, it can be hard to figure out what type of mental illness could be threatening your child. For example, he says, "Depression in children does exist, but it is often accompanied by hyperactivity." While depression can cause a loss of appetite, if your child is refusing to eat or only eats very limited selections, you might also be seeing the early signs of an eating disorder.
Tween & Teen
The preceding signs of mental illness are still a concern, but the behaviors may be more pronounced as children get older. Look for:
- Destructive behavior, such as damaging property or setting fires
- Constantly threatening to run away or running away, which can be a precursor to self- harm, says Klykylo
- Withdrawal from family and friends
- Comments or writings that suggest a desire to harm himself or others
Once you seek help, your child will be evaluated. The Child Behavior Checklist, which contains more than 100 questions related to child behavior, may be used — or the kids' psychology expert you choose may refer to the DSM-IV with strict medical guidelines for diagnosing mental illnesses.
Your participation in both the evaluation and the treatment of your child could be essential, says Klykylo. Younger children are often treated with the involvement of their caregivers and family, he says. Medication, therapy, behavior change, modifications in the school setting, and other tools may be needed to help you and your child, depending on the diagnosis.
Stay in touch!
KNE - Amie Wheeler - firstname.lastname@example.org
WE - Hailee Wickham - email@example.com
KNMS - Heather Wallace - firstname.lastname@example.org
KNMS - Taylor Morrison - email@example.com
KNHS - Laura Kennedy (Last Names A-I) - firstname.lastname@example.org
KNHS - Melissa Steerman (Last Names J-Z) - email@example.com
District Social Worker - Kate Sisney - firstname.lastname@example.org