He Said, She Said

Differences In Genders and Communication

Gender vs Sex

Gender - Gender is the behavioral and psychological traits of a person (Masculine and Feminine).

Sex - The "biological identity" of a person (Male and Female).

Different Abilities

Males are proven to be better at...

  • Spacial Skills
  • Math
  • Physical Skills

Females are proven to be better at...

  • Vocal Communication
  • Hearing
  • Reading and Vocabulary

Differences In Communications

Women communicate through dialogue, discussing emotions, choices and problems. Males remain action-oriented -- the goal of communication is to achieve something.

He believes communication should have a clear purpose. Behind every conversation is a problem that needs solving or a point that needs to be made. Communication is used to get to the root of the dilemma as efficiently as possible.

She uses communication to discover how she is feeling and what it is she wants to say. She sees conversation as an act of sharing and an opportunity to increase intimacy with her partner. Through sharing, she releases negative feelings and solidifies her bond with the man she loves.

He is conditioned to listen actively. When a woman initiates conversation he assumes she is seeking his advice or assistance. He engages with the woman, filtering everything she’s saying through the lens of, “What can we actually do about this?” Learning to listen patiently — not just passively — doesn’t come easily to him.

She sees conversation as a productive end in and of itself. If she feels sufficiently heard or understood she may not need to take further action to resolve a problem or “make things better.” The fact that she has been listened to assuages her anxieties and dulls the pangs of negative feelings. Sharing with someone who understands and loves her heals her from the inside and equips her with the emotional tools necessary to handle the trials and tribulations of the outside world.

Relationship Tips from John Gray: Differences in Communication between Men and Women
Difference between men and women

Problems Communication Differences Can Cause...

  • Miscommunication
  • Problems In Relationships
  • Frustration
  • Resentment
  • Disadvantages





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