Don't get ZEALOUS if your partner is JEALOUS
Resentment against a rival, a person enjoying success or advantage, etc., or against another's success or advantage itself.
What the abuser does to you
The abuser you of flirting, and be jealous when you hang out with friends for family. They may want you to only spend time with them, or make it seem like they're all you need.
How to stop being jealous and ruining your relationship