Love Catastrophe

Kaytlen Beetz

I'm hopelessly in love but he doesn't love me back

Dear Gabby,

I have read your column for years, but i never thought that I would be writing to you. I've tried going to meetings of "Women who love to much" but I'm still hurting, so I thought maybe you could help me. My problem is that the guy I love doesn't want to be in the same room with me. He likes my best friend but she doesn't like him. He practically hates me. No matter how much I try to get him to like me, it just seems to make him hate me more and more. I will never be as pretty as Hermia. Whenever I try to talk to him my mind goes blank and weird things come out. I try to be around him all the time but, he just thinks I'm creepy. What do I do? How do I get him to love me?


Hopeless in love

Advice for hopeless in love

Dear hopeless in love,

Thank you for writing to me about your many love issues. I understand that you love this guy but he loves another girl. You also implied that this girl happens to be your best friend.One of the possible solutions to you problems would be to forget about Demetrius. Sure it will be hard and might take a while but then you can finally move on. Another solution you could choose is to not be crazy. you are always following him, you tell him crazy things, and you are always in his business. Just try being yourself. he still might not like you but on the other hand he wont think your creepy and he might like the real you. Another route you could go is to not be a tattle tale. He still might find her and be in love with her again but then again he might not ever find her and eventually fall in love with you. Try one of these and write me back so I can know if I helped. I wish you the best of luck with Demetrius.