The Heart Healer
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Un-returned Love
I have read your column for years, but I never thought I would be writing to you. I've tried going to meetings of "Women who love too much" but I'm still hurting, so I thought maybe you could help me. My problem is that the guy I love doesn't want to be in the same room with me.
My hopefully-one-day love is in love with my best friend. She is perfect. There's not a day that goes by that I don't wish I was exactly like her. He's tried to make me move on, but the more he tries the more i love him.
Help please,
Hopeless Romantic :(
Ways to get over someone
Music
Music soothes the soul. Try listening to classical music when you have the time. If you're not a big fan of classical music, other types of music work too.
Peace and Quiet
Try spending more time in your favorite places. You'll have time to think about the good things in life.
Feed your brain
Read a good book, or watch a good movie. Anything to put your mind somewhere else works.
Help at Its Best
Thank you so much for writing to me. It does my heart good. I read about your problems, and i'd be glad to help.
From your letter, it seems that you're a bit jealous of your friend. Although I know you can't help what you feel, hearing this from one more person won't hurt. God made everyone beautiful, and jealousy is never a good thing. Focus on the positive things about yourself: your personality, knowledge, and maybe artistic talent. I'm sure there are many. You will be more confident, but it you'll have to be strong. Fighting off the negative is tough, but I know you can do it.
That may be tough, but this is the toughest one of all. Moving on. You've seen and heard this advice on TV shows and movies, but as silly as it sounds it is something that has to be done. You'll be able to notice the people of your surroundings, and you may find your true love. It'll take time and effort, but it's not impossible.
Remember to focus on the positive, and try to move on. I hope you find this helpful, and I wish you the best of luck.
With lots of love,
The Heart Healer
Helena's problems..... in my perspective
Broken Heart
Helena is in love with someone who doesn't love her back, but her heart won't let him go.
Jealousy...
Helena is jealous of her best friend because Demetrius loves her, and that's all Helena wants. Helena wants to be exactly like her, so she can get attention from Demetrius.
Being mad fun of...-_-
While Helena was on her chase for Demetrius, Helena ran into Lysander, Hermia's true love. Lysander is acting like he's in love with Helena to mock her just like everyone else in Athens is.