Proactive- someone who is calm And doesn't blame other people for things they did
Reactive- a person who blames everything on everybody and thinks the world owes them something
That's just the way I am.
There's nothing I can do.
I have to.
You ruined my day.
I'll do it
I can do better then that
Lets look at all our options
I choose to
There's gotta be a way
I'm not gonna let your bad mood rub off on me
The victimitis virus- a virus that makes people believe that the world owes them something
It always pays to be proactive
We can control only one thing- how we respond to things that happen to us.
We have to turn setbacks into triumphs
Rising above abuse- we have to tell someone about abuse and not blame ourselves that is being reactive!
Havering a can-do attitude will build your proactive muscles.
Take initiative to make it happen.
Think about problems and barriers.
Wait for something to happen to them
Think about solutions and options
Are acted upon
Being able to push pause and think before you speak is part of the power tools to help in your life
You can make progress towards being proactive by taking baby steps towards it
2. What kind of attitude do you need to build your proactive muscles?
Say which sentence is proactive or reactive language.
3. I'll do it.
4. I'll try.
5. I can do better than that!