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The One I Love Belongs to Somebody Else

You simply walked into your favourite eatery for lunch. You adore the food but right now you've got something else on your own mind. You are expecting someone else to join you and here they are. You both greet each other warmly. From the very first time you met on the job, there's been some intense attraction between the two of you.

You need to build on the emotions you are feeling and so does the other individual; sort of. Sort of?

This is nothing new. No doubt you have heard all those songs about falling in love with another man's wife, husband, fiance girlfriend boyfriend or whatever.

Again they tell you they're involved with someone else. You comprehend and hear but you still hold out hope that something will alter the scenario. You tell the other person, that they need to feel the same way; otherwise they wouldn't be here.

You possibly the nicest person on the continent but in essence what you're doing is trying your best to break up a relationship merely to satisfy yourself.


When people get involved in these situations if the shoe was on the other foot, they never stop to think what, it appears. Let us say you're successful in having the other man to yourself and breaking up their relationship. Great but now they meet someone who attracts them more than you do. What then? You end up in the exact same standing as the first person. Karma can be very awful so in the event that you don't desire to be on the receiving end than it is best to let it go

2. Trust

The other person lets you know they seriously involved with somebody else or are engaged. So what are they doing there sitting next to you putting out feelers? Curb your emotions for a minute and think. Can you truly trust a person who says they're in a committed relationship but is outside looking for some action?

3. Wait

You both agree to pursue this further except that the other person cannot quite stop their other relationship . The truth is nobody has that kind of time. Sure the two of you could get closer and more intimate but you're still the 3rd wheel. As long as the other person remains in their relationship, you are sharing them. No matter how you feel now, this may get old very fast.

4. The Explosion

It is bad enough slipping around but now it gets back to the other man. No they aren't going to do the "proper" thing and bow out graciously. In fact they are set to fight in order to keep the other person in the relationship but more importantly not to be made a fool of. Injured pride is a strong motivator. Are you really willing to escalate the specific situation? Moreover you really don't know what side of the fence the object of your affection will elect to stand on. You may wind up losing the war in a big way and winning the battle.

It is in your best interest to avoid getting involved with a person who's already in a committed relationship. There are plenty of folks within your world who are unattached and looking to see if they can generate some chemistry with you. Perhaps yes, maybe no. But involving yourself with a person who's already involved can take a major toll on everyone concerned particularly you. The victory in most instances is not worth the cost.