The Teenage Brain and Grief
How Does the Teenage Brain Handle it?
What are the 5 Stages of Grief?
- Help person function during time
- Feel surreal
- Blaming others/Lash outs
- Help move through rest of stages
- Cutting contract with self - fantasizing that it's a dream
- Helps person feel control
- "What if's"
- Turns anger/blame towards self. "False Guilt"
- Trust life and the good in it
- Forgive loss/someone
- Lose bitterness and revenge
- Move on - taking power back
- Find new purpose/meaning for life
The Colonel & Pudge V.S The 5 Stages of Grief
How to Help a Teenager in Grief
Some ways to help are as follows:
- Continue showing support
- Understanding the importance
- Support groups
"By 'walking with' a teen in grief, you are giving one of life's most precious gifts -- yourself."
Looking For Alaska
The characters in Looking For Alaska help each other with the loss of Alaska. They work together to try to learn why she did what she did and in that process, they learn to move on.
Changes In The Brain
During the teen years the brain is reshaped and reconstructed while enduring hormones, current needs and experiences. ‘What a teen does and is exposed to during this critical time in life, has a large influence on the teen’s future, because experience and current needs shape the pruning and spurting process in the brain.” - Doctor Robert Hedaya