Teen Guide to Smart Dating
by:Avery Bjorklund, Luke Jancoski, and Ian Richardson
Refusal Skills and Pressure Lines
Boy: Are your parents home?
Boy: What will we do?
Girl: Watch a movie thats rated R.
Boy: I think I am busy tonight.
Girl: Come on! Lets Snuggle!
Boy: I have to go out to eat with my family.
Girl: We can have sex also!
Boy: We are to young I am sorry but I cannot go.
Avoiding Unplanned Sexual Activity
- Being at a party
- Going to someones house when parents are away
- Watching an inappropriate rated R movie with someone when parents aren't with you.
Benefits of abstinence
*Mental: more time for self-growth, good self-esteem, focus on what's important versus seeking constant pleasure
*Social: able to have time for friends, not being secluded from activities, keep good reputation
Healthy expressions of affection
Talk on phone
Reporting sexual harassment
The address is 401 Carver Rd.
P.O. Box 228
characteristics of a healthy relationship
Negative: pressuring each other to have sex, arguing often, staying away from family
Consequences of early sexual activity
Mental: self-loathing, regret, low self-esteem
Social: people wanting to date you for the wrong reasons, ruin reputation, lose friends