Teen Guide to Smart Dating
by:Avery Bjorklund, Luke Jancoski, and Ian Richardson
Refusal Skills and Pressure Lines
Boy: Are your parents home?
Girl: No..
Boy: What will we do?
Girl: Watch a movie thats rated R.
Boy: I think I am busy tonight.
Girl: Come on! Lets Snuggle!
Boy: I have to go out to eat with my family.
Girl: We can have sex also!
Boy: We are to young I am sorry but I cannot go.
Avoiding Unplanned Sexual Activity
- Being at a party
- Going to someones house when parents are away
- Watching an inappropriate rated R movie with someone when parents aren't with you.
Setting Boundries
BIOS
Benefits of abstinence
*Mental: more time for self-growth, good self-esteem, focus on what's important versus seeking constant pleasure
*Social: able to have time for friends, not being secluded from activities, keep good reputation
Healthy expressions of affection
Good communication
Talk on phone
Smiling
Holding hands
Reporting sexual harassment
Ph: (507)-304-4800
Fx: (507)-304-4818
The address is 401 Carver Rd.
P.O. Box 228
Mankato Minnesota
co.blue-earth.mn.us
characteristics of a healthy relationship
Negative: pressuring each other to have sex, arguing often, staying away from family
Consequences of early sexual activity
Mental: self-loathing, regret, low self-esteem
Social: people wanting to date you for the wrong reasons, ruin reputation, lose friends