By: Roxanne Aguilar
What is abusive relationships?
Abusive relationships are not healthy to have and are relationships you shouldn't have or keep. Most abusive relationships happen to ladies but can also happen to gentlemen as well but more frequently to ladies because some gentlemen think that it is alright to harm and take advantage of ladies because they think that they wont do anything about it. Most ladies wont say anything if they are in an abusive relationship they will more than likely keep it to themselves or they wont do anything because they think that its is their fault that their spouse is abusing them because they are too blind to see that what is happening to them is really wrong.
What an abusive relationship can lead to
Abusive relationships are a problem because it could result in a death because lets say that the spouse wants to leave the abuser and the abuser wont let the victim go so the abuser will get violent and it could end up in a death of the victim because they took to long to react and leave the abuser.What the victim should do is get help to get out of the relationship. It is also a problem because it could prevent the victim from never being able to love again in fear of getting into another abusive relationship again.
How to avoid and get out of an abusive relationship
My solution to abusive relationships is to get to know you partner really well before you get into a relationship with them so that way you know how they are like and how they act. But lets say you don't get to know them well enough and you figure out that your spouse is an abuser don't keep it to yourself get help from your friends, parents or the police before it is too late. Don't be that person that was too shy or scared to say anything or get help, don't wait till its too late.