Proactive Or Reactive?
They are being proactive and giving each other a friendly hand shake.
They are being reactive by fighting each other.
They are being proactive by give each other a hug.
Proactive And Reactive Language
Look at the examples below if you haven't already noticed Proactive is good and Reactive is bad.If you are having Proactive Language you would say something like this "It's ok i'll try again.". If you are having Reactive language you would say something like "It's not my fault.".