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How to build self-esteem:

This might help if:


You have low self-esteem

You’d like to learn how to build self-esteem

You’d like to know the causes of low self-esteem


Signs of low self-esteem:


It’s totally normal for people to feel down about themselves from time to time, but when these feelings start to hang around all the time it’s usually an indication of low self-esteem. If you have low self-esteem it means that you have negative ideas about your worth and value as a person. There are various signs of low self-esteem, including:

Being really critical of yourself

Focusing on the negatives and ignoring your accomplishments

Comparing yourself to others

Not accepting any compliments that you receive

Negative self-talk

Causes of low self-esteem


The first step to building up self-esteem is figuring out why it’s low in the first place. There are lots of different things that could be the cause of low self-esteem, including:

Loneliness

Poor academic performance

Bullying

Neglect

Abuse

Feeling like you’re the odd one out

Being unemployed

Something going on at a deeper level

Sometimes it can be hard to identify what the cause of your low self-esteem is. It might be something that you’ve never really thought about, or maybe it’s too difficult to determine when it first started. Whether or not you know exactly what the cause is, there are steps that you can take to build your confidence and bring your self-esteem up to where it belongs.


Steps to improve low self-esteem:


1. Positive self-talk

The way that you think about yourself has a huge influence on your self-esteem. If you keep telling yourself that you’re no good, you might just start to believe it even though it’s not true. If you notice that you practice negative self-talk often, check out some ways that you can challenge your negative thinking and build your confidence levels.


2. Don’t compare yourself to others


It can be really tempting to measure our own worth against other people. So what if your friend is awesome at table tennis and gets great marks? You just need to figure out what your niche is. Everyone is great at something - what are your strengths?


3. Exercise


Exercise helps to improve your mood. End of story.


4. Don’t strive for perfection


It’s really great if you want to do things well, but keep in mind that perfection isn’t possible. Check out one person’s story of coming to terms with their sweet imperfection.


5. Don’t beat yourself up when you make a mistake


Everyone on the planet makes mistakes – it’s in our basic human nature. Why should you be any different? When you stuff up, don’t stress, just learn from it and move on.


6. Focus on the things you can change


There’s no point wasting all your energy thinking about things that you can’t change. Why don’t you have a think about some of the things that are in your power to control and see what you can do about those?


7. Do things that you enjoy


If you’re doing things that you enjoy you’re more likely to be thinking positively. Schedule time for fun and relaxation into every day.


8. Celebrate the small stuff


Start small and work your way up – you can’t expect any huge progress to be made overnight.


9. Be helpful and considerate


Not only is helping people a great way to boost the moods of others, but you might find that you feel better about yourself after doing something particularly excellent.


10. Surround yourself with supportive people


Don’t hang around people who bring you down. Find a group of people who make you feel good about yourself and avoid those who tend to trigger your negative thinking.


Not helping?


If you’ve tried putting these tips into action for a while and you haven’t noticed any differences in the way you feel about yourself, it’s a good idea to talk to someone you trust about it, like a friend or family member. You might also want to make an appointment with a counsellor who can work with you to figure out exactly what’s at the root of your low self-esteem, and how to fix it. Dealing with self-esteem isn’t easy but these people are there to help you if you want it.


What can I do now?


Every time you think a negative thought about yourself, challenge it with a positive one.

Check out some info about the related topic of self-confidence.

Have a look at some ways that you can challenge negative thinking.