Counselor Connections
with Mrs. Frederickson
Spring 2023
Spring Update
Hello Families!
I can't believe we are done with the second trimester of school this year. I am so proud of each of your students. I have seen amazing growth in so many areas including growth in their social interactions and emotional regulation. It has been such a great year at Smith Elementary and I am incredibly excited about this Spring.
I can't believe we are done with the second trimester of school this year. I am so proud of each of your students. I have seen amazing growth in so many areas including growth in their social interactions and emotional regulation. It has been such a great year at Smith Elementary and I am incredibly excited about this Spring.
Upstairs Brain Downstairs Brain - SEL Sketches
What We are Learning...
We worked on identifying emotions and emotional regulation for most of the first two trimesters. That helped us transition into problem-solving and conflict resolution. Students are being taught S.T.E.P. for problem-solving situations.
S - Say the problem (without blame)
S - Say the problem (without blame)
T - Think of Solutions (that are safe and respectful)
E - Explore the Consequences (positive and negative consequences)
P - Pick the BEST solution
Sometimes solutions have several steps and require a plan of action. Here is a plan of action checklist:
- The order makes sense
- There is enough time to do it
- It is not too complicated
- It is realistic
Problem Solving Song
Conflict...Conflict...Conflict! | Samantha Garcia | TEDxKids@ChulaVista
Conflict Management Funny animated 1
Where We Are Going...
For the final weeks of school, we will be learning about Healthy Choices, Self-Esteem, Positive Self-Talk, Self-Care, Transitions, and Careers.
The Reflection in Me HD
Montana Mental Health Directory
Many students need consistent and professional mental healthcare. As a school counselor, I give support but I am unable to provide one-on-one continuous counseling services. The Bright App is a great resource for locating a mental health professional that can offer the support your student needs outside of school.

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What To Read Right Now...
Here are some great books to be reading with your students.
Not Your Typical Dragon A dragon with not-so-typical abilities that learns to love himself. | Rain Boy A book about loving yourself and accepting those around you for who they are. | Only One You There is only one you in this world. Make it a better place. |