What is Relationship Rewrite Method
Get Your Ex and Relationship Back
Well it has come down to this and you have found yourself looking for help to get the ex-back. While this is not designed to be a pity party of losing your girlfriend or boyfriend, we are truly sorry that it took a turn for the worst.
However, it’s time to get off your ass and do something about it!
This first thing you must ask yourself: Would you be better off and happier with your ex back in your arms?!
If yes, then let’s get started!
Having been involved with numerous break-ups and rekindling, I can relate to the feelings associated with someone you truly want back in your life. Not only have I experienced it, but also helped many friends and family members on how to get that one and only back.
Let’s face it, one of our society’s main form of communication is text messaging.
Fortunately for you, this will only make it easier for you to get that one person back.
These are the 4 steps that you NEED to follow in order to improve your chances!
Every relationship is different so you will have to feel out the process and how long to wait in between steps.
Step 1: Breath, Take a Step Back, and DON'T Text Your Ex!
Alright, its done but you need to take some time to think about what actually went wrong. I have seen too many people act on emotion and not think what they are doing or saying. I know this is easier said than done, but you have to get out and try to get your mind off of things. More importantly, do not text or contact your ex by any means for a while! This will shoot you right to the friend zone with your ex and then its game over. Do you want your ex to still have you but not in a relationship?!……NO!
Step 2: Better yourself!
Take this time to truly think about how you can make yourself better. If you added some extra pounds or fell out of shape, this is the time to get the gym. If you wanted to improve your social life and meet an old friend you haven’t seen in a while, this is also the time to do it. You can even learn a new hobby, skill or language. My point is that if you truly want your ex back, you need to show that you have changed things to improve yourself. This will give the overall image that you are a better person than you were when you were dating. Lastly, do not get jealous if you see him/her hanging out with other people. This will only bring you back into feeling awful! It’s okay and this is all to be expected and will most likely happen!
Step 3: Start talking to other people
This doesn’t mean that you should go start a serious long-term relationship with anyone, but just start talking to other people. Think about it, when the time comes to Relationship Rewrite Method, you want to be sharp. In other words, you don’t want to be rusty when the time comes to get back together again! People will see you moved on and your ex might catch wind of this. However, Do NOT use this strategy too aggressively. You want to be subtle about it like you’re just really good friends. You have to walk the fine line of making your ex jealous in a natural way but not piss them off!
Step 4: It’s Time to Text
At this point if your ex has not contacted you yet and you really feel like it’s been enough time, it is the step to make contact! When you send that first text, it is normal for you to be as nervous as hell. This will be normal but remember not to text with emotion. Text your ex like it’s an old friend that you haven’t seen in a while. For example, “Hey I haven’t talked to you forever! Hope everything is well!” Be sure not to text something that will make your ex uncomfortable. You want to make this is as light as possible because this is your first contact! Once a few text messages have been exchanged be sure to cut it off and make yourself busy. For example, “Hey it was nice talking to you again, but I have to go help my friend with something. I am sure we will talk soon.” Something along those lines. This might sound like you’re playing games, but you want to make sure that he/she is under the impression that you’re not the most important thing in your life anymore. This will always almost be the trigger that makes your ex wondering about you again. After this step has been implemented, you need to be patient and let your ex text you back. In most cases this will happen sooner than later!
If you want to really expand your knowledge on getting Your Ex Back, be sure to check out James Bauer’s Relationship Rewrite Method system. Out of all the systems I have reviewed this one has been truly the best. It implements some of the same strategies that I have discussed up above and many more!