Message Meant to Deceive
This clip shows a message that is meant to deceive. Nacho obviously doesn't truly enjoy every single thing that the sister is saying. He is trying to impress her and therefore being very deceptive while doing so.
In this series of clips Michael Scott uses disconfirming behavior throughout his interactions with Toby. Michael Scott's disconfirming behavior is used in an attempt to devalue, humiliate, and alienate Toby and his position as an HR representative within the company.
The Office- Top 20 Michael vs. Toby Moments!!!
This video shows an inference because the hero automatically inferred that the robbers were going to jail, even though it wasn't on the script. He clearly explains why he thought this and what lead him to believe they would be going to jail.
Introduction to Reading Skills: Making Inferences
In this comic strip, Calvin is demonstrating emotional ineptitude by his lack of self-awareness, one of the important aspects needed for emotional intelligence. He says that when people constantly complain, it drives him "nuts," not realizing that he himself is complaining and annoying his friend Hobbes. He is not self-aware and is showing a lack of social skills by going on and on, ignoring the person he is talking to. This kind of outburst and lack of self-awareness can cause many problems in all types of interpersonal relationships.
Emotionally Tone Deaf
The Office: Michael pushes Toby's tray
In this video, Michael and Toby are having lunch together. Toby attempts to talk to Michael about some difficulties he has had in the past in an attempt to relate to him. However, Michael is unable to empathize with Toby and completely shuts down his feelings. His lack of sensitivity towards Toby is an example of being emotionally tone deaf.
Using Emotions Strategically
Vic's Kid & Mom Tantrum Commercial
I liked this video to showcase using emotions strategically because usually the child throws tantrums to get what they want. However, in this funny commercial the mom used a tantrum to avoid having to give into her child.
Physical Effects Emotions Can Have
The following are some of the physical effects that emotions can have on our bodies.
Positive Effects: [x]
Negative Effects (generally from unbalanced emotions or stress): [x]
- Back pain
- Change in appetite or Weight gain or loss
- Chest pain
- Constipation or diarrhea or even Upset stomach
- Dry mouth
- Extreme tiredness
- General aches and pains
- High blood pressure
- Insomnia (trouble sleeping)
- Lightheadedness or Shortness of breath
- Palpitations (the feeling that your heart is racing)
- Sexual problems
- Stiff neck
Positive Effects: [x]
- More sociability and connections
- Broaden perspectives of the word
- Build up over time, causing emotional resilience
- Faster recovery from cardiovascular stress
- Better sleep
- Fewer colds
- A greater sense of overall happiness
Over-disclosing on Social Media
This was a status update that I read on my homepage that went out to all 371 of her friends, some of whom, including myself, do not know her very well. I think this definitely qualifies as disclosing too much personal information, making others feel uncomfortable.
I love your skirt!- Regina George
In this clip, Regina George gives a backhanded compliment. She purposely tells an innocent girl that she loves her skirt but isn't sincere and proceeds to tell Cady that it is ugly.
Graciously Accepting Compliments
Sesame Street: Heidi Klum: Compliment
In this video clip, Heidi Klum and Elmo are exchanging compliments and are demonstrating how to respond and accept each others compliments graciously.