Calling for help

Hallie Dusseau

i need help

Dear Gabby,

I have read your column for years, but i never thought that i would be writing to you. I've tried going to meetings of "Women who love too much" but i'm still hurting, so i thought maybe you could help me. my problem is that the guy i love doesn't want to be in the same room as me and it kinda what do i do? i cant just stop liking him. its impossible for me! he loves me best friend, i love him. yeah my Best Friend!! i'm crazy about him, but he thinks that i'm lust plain Crazy! he said that he would leave with the wild beasts!! will you help????

sincerely yours,

crazy in love pesent

returning the call

i'll help you

Dear Crazy in Love Pesent,

I have noticed that you sent me a letter saying that you you have problems with a guy that you like. You say that you love him but its not the same the other way around. How sad!! But lucky for you , I can might be able to help!!

I have thought of some ideas/choices that might help. The first one that maybe you need to give him some space. The good thing about this is is that if you give him space he could realize how much he really needs you and it will help you with self-control.But there are some bad parts that might happen. He might forget about you and ,for you, it might be really hard to stay away from him.

I have also thought of other ideas. i have thought that if you say you want to start over and just be friends and actually talk to each other. the good thing about this is that if he'll let y'all just be friends then he might not be as mean to you anymore.But there are is also the problem. The problem is that it's gonna be hard to forget y'all's past.

Well, i hope i have helped you a little bit.Tell me what happens! Write back please!

Sincerely yours,