JCMS Parent Newsletter
JCMS General News
- Progress Reports were sent out to you student last Friday. You can always see your students grade by logging into Skyward (https://skyward.iscorp.com/scripts/wsisa.dll/WService=wsedujenningscoin/fwemnu01.w).
- Fall Picture Day - This Thursday, all students will get their pictures taken. If you would like to purchase these, please make sure to send the order for with your student on this day.
- Jennings Youth Involvement Team - Applications are available in the library or room 147 and are due back by September 11th, 2015.
- Math Club - They will have their monthly meeting on Wednesday Sept. 9th until 4:00pm.
- JCMS Technology Club - This club will start meeting on September 23rd from 3:15-4:00pm. See Mrs. Donnell for more information.
From the Guidance Office
Ten Things Dan Wants To Tell Teenage Boys
by Dan Conner
Dan is the husband of Kate Conner. A few weeks ago, we posted Kate’s "Ten Things I Want to Tell Teenage Girls. Dan, as a former teenager himself, has come up with his own advice to teenage boys.
1. There are no shortcuts to respect. Shortcuts to popularity? Maybe. Shortcuts to hype/cred/fame/swag? Sure, whatever. But shortcuts to respect? None. You earn it or you don’t. You earn it by giving it to people that deserve it. You earn it by giving it to people that don’t. Men, women, kids, the elderly. Teachers, parents, the greeter at Walmart. You earn it by the way you carry yourself. The sooner you realize it’s what you really want, the quicker you can quit looking for shortcuts that don’t exist.
2. Person not parts. Often, you will look at a woman. Your teenage years are a good time to master the habit of seeing a person and not just body parts. The girl you’re checking out not only has a nice [figure] – she also has a name, a personality, parents, goals, dreams, and a life that doesn’t involve your staring. Plus, that respect thing will be easier if you look her in the eyes first.
3. Control your sexuality or it will control you. With the right boundaries, sex is cool. And for a teenage guy, sex seems like this overwhelmingly huge part of life. But it is NOT worth wasting your whole life for. Sex is best in its proper time and place – if you rush and do things your way, you’ll regret it. Sex can drive you to do stupid things. As cool as you think it is, remember this for a little perspective: your parents did it too.
4. Laziness is a disease. Other men will treat it that way too. Men may disagree with your opinion, your values, or your lifestyle and still give you some credibility. Let them believe you’re lazy, and you might as well not open your mouth again. They’re not listening.
5. There is fine line between confidence and arrogance, but a canyon between confidence and insecurity. Act like you’re supposed to be there. When you believe yourself, others believe you too. People look for someone willing to take on challenges, willing to say ‘I got this.’ Be real, be yourself, but be the best version of yourself. The best confidence of all comes from knowing that whatever happens, I’m coming out the other side. After all, what doesn’t kill me, makes me stronger. ( FYI: the respect from #1 will kill arrogance before it starts.)
6. Whatever you’ve been asked to do, do just a little bit more. Exceed expectations. If your Mom’s expecting a ‘C,’ fight, claw, and scratch for a ‘B.’ If Dad asks you to wash the dishes, wash them AND take out the trash. I know this sounds like nothing but extra work. But in business, this gets you new customers. In basketball, this improves your free throw percentage. In relationships, it builds trust and responsibility. The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is only five letters. Just a little ‘extra.’
7. Women do not think like you do. You think you look cool because you’re wearing a new shirt. She thinks you look cool because you actually ironed it. You think ‘I love you’ means ‘I think you’re fun.’ But she’s thinking about words like ‘forever’ and ‘always’ and ‘The Notebook.’ Speaking in this romantic language as a teen guy is like trying to speak to hostile Latin King gang members after watching an episode of Dora. You don’t really understand what you’re saying, and you’re going to get yourself shot.
7b. Oh, and those women want you to pull your pants up.
8. Speak up. Sometimes you have something meaningful to say. Say it. Say it where people can hear you. Speak up! Speak up when you say hello, when you ask the girl for her number, when you’re answering a question. If it’s not worth saying proudly, it’s not worth saying. (This doesn’t apply to cell phone conversations)
9. You will not fail if you do not try. In other words, feel free to avoid failure at all cost. But only if you’re content being single, broke, jobless, uneducated, unknown, and unaccomplished. If that’s not what you’re looking for, you’re going to have to buck up and give it a shot. And sometimes, you’ll screw up. That’s part of life. Remember: if you failed two times out of every three times your entire career in baseball (and hit a .333 average), you’d be in the top 26 all time! (http://www.baseball-reference.com/leaders/batting_avg_career.shtml)
10. Real men. For the rest of your life, you’re going to hear about all kinds of real men. They are going to be described to you as men with superhuman strength, impeccable taste in fashion, loads of cash, and the charisma and charm that every woman wants. You’re going to hear how real men wear pink, real men drive Fords or Chevys or Porsches, real men grow beards, real men drink this, or go here, or use that. They’re going to use this kind of language because you were made to be a man. And for someone to question your manhood is to deny you a valuable part of who you are. The last thing you want women or men or society or culture to think is that you are somehow ‘less of a man.’ Here's the secret: this real man that you’re supposed to measure up to doesn’t exist.The only man that you’ve got to worry about striving after is the man you were created to be. You’ve got to wake up in the morning determined to meet your potential head on, to no longer judge your success by the products that they’re peddling, but to judge yourself by standards that have existed since the beginning of the time:
Am I going to make excuses or am I going to make something happen?
Am I going to make my life count or am I going to waste it?
Am I going to make my life about what I have or about who I am?After all, answering these questions well will get you the best kind of respect there is: True, solid, ‘conscience-clear,’ left everything out there, self-respect.
Friday, Sep. 11th, 3:15-5pm
820 West Walnut Street
North Vernon, IN
Tailgate with Title 1
Tuesday, Sep. 22nd, 4:30pm
800 West Walnut Street
North Vernon, IN
enjoy activities with friends and family. We will have face paintings, tug-o-war, corn hull, extra point, concessions, and more.
Perks - Come to JCHS building outside the gate marked TITLE I, and we
will pay ADMISSION for our 7th and 8th grade students, plus
siblings and parents/guardians will be admitted for 1/2 price
(adults--now $2; students--$1). Must check in at building to right of gate table. JCMS Students will be given a ticket for a special event to occur at 1/2 time of the 7th
grade game. (Must BE present to participate)