helping hopeless losers

Justin Francisco

Hopeless lover

Dear love expert,

I have read your column for for years, but i never thought i would be writing to you. I've tried going to meetings of "women who love to much" but i'm still hurting, so i thought maybe you could help me. my problem is that the guy i love doesn't want to be in the same room as me. Every time i look at him, he just scowls at me. But i can't stop loving him. I even tried to help him once, but he just told me how annoying i am. How can i get him to love me?


A desperate lover.

Helping hopeless lover advice


Dear desperate lover,

I understand the fact that you love someone, but they don't love you back. i have thought about the problem and have come up with some good options. But think carefully about each choice.

For your first choice I suggest you could give him some space, then come back to him. He might accept you for not bothering him. But he may completely forget about you and tell you to go away.

Choice two is maybe you should should just move on and find someone who will love you back. Lets face it, he does horrible stuff; he calls you names, he's in love with your friend, and he abandons you in the woods. Or you could move on and have a good life.

But you may have a hard time getting over him. There is other advice, but i strongly recommend that you use my advice.

These are some options I have come up for you. and don't forget my advice. I hope you have good luck.


The love expert