Counselor's Corner

Oxford Prep's School Counseling Services

Words From The Counselor

Happy New Year Griffins!! We are excited to kick off another semester here at OPS. We hope you enjoyed your Winter break and are ready to hit the ground running for semester two.

For those of you who do not know, I am Oxford Prep's School Counselor, Mrs. Stadler. I have many awesome things in store for OPS this year and I want make sure you stay connected. There will be a Counselor Corner Newsletter the first Monday of each month to keep you updated.

To ensure that we are meeting the needs of both our students and parents, please take a moment and complete the parent needs assessment on this page. Your feedback will help me enhance our counseling program. My contact information is below; feel free to reach out anytime. I look forward to working with all of you.

Mrs. Alexis Stadler, School Counselor/504 Coordinator

Office: 919-690-0360 EXT: 102


Conference Hours: Available by

The Great Kindness Challenge 2018

Monday, Jan. 22nd, 8am to Friday, Jan. 26th, 4pm

6041 Landis Road

Oxford, NC

The Great Kindness Challenge is one week dedicated to creating a culture of kindness on campuses nationwide. OPS is proudly participating in this proactive, positive initiative. All students will receive a GKC checklist with 50 kind acts. Please encourage your student to have fun and complete the checklist. Students who complete all 50 kind acts will be entered in to a drawing for 2 free tickets to Winter Formal and a $50 gift certificate to Uptown 101.

Part of the GKC is Kind Coins for Hurricane Relief. Students are encouraged to collect spare change and donations from the community to donate to the effort. All proceeds raised go to the 501c3 non-profit Kids for Peace who will use the money to build playgrounds at hurricane effected schools. More information on this effort can be found here.

Other events during the GKC are:

Spirit Days:

  • Monday: Wear crazy socks to "kick off" the Great Kindness Challenge
  • Tuesday: Team Kindness - Wear sports jerseys
  • Wednesday: "Peace, love and kindness" - Peace signs, bell bottoms, tie dye, etc.
  • Thursday: "Throw Kindness Around Like Confetti" - Sparkly attire and accessories
  • Friday: OPS Students are Kind Students - Wear OPS apparel

Kindness Station:
  • Students will be able to visit the kindness station at lunch to send kind notes to their friends and teachers.

Classroom Lessons:
  • OPS teachers will be incorporating GKC activities and lessons in their classrooms

We also encourage you to use the GKC Family Edition to continue spreading kindness in the community.

Coffee with the Counselor

Friday, Jan. 26th, 7:30am

6041 Landis Road

Oxford, NC

Join me for a parent meet and greet to get to know your child's counselor! Come and hear about the awesome Counseling Program, the services I provide for our students and ask any questions you may have. There will be coffee served. I look forward to meeting you.

RSVPs are enabled for this event.

Parent Needs Assessment

Parents, please take a moment and complete the needs assessment for Oxford Prep's Counseling Department. Your feedback is helpful to ensure we are meeting the needs of our students, parents, and community! Thank you.

Small Group Counseling Available

The purpose of small groups is to bring students with similar needs or concerns together to share, problem solve, and connect with their peers to enhance their social and emotional development. This is NOT a form of therapy, but rather an outlet where students can express themselves in a safe space.

Students may participate in the following groups:

Anxiety & Coping Skills

Motivation & Effort

Conflict Resolution

Academic Improvement

Girls Group (self-esteem, female empowerment, positive relationships)

Boys Group (positive relationships, behavior management)

More information will be provided for parents at the Meet the Counselor Orientation on January 26, 2018.

College Planning Links

It is never too early to start planning for college. The following websites have great resources for college planning from middle school through 12th grade.

College Foundation of North Carolina

CFNC Planning Timeline: Gives steps students should be taking each year to prepare for their future.

JLV College Counseling: This is Mrs. Stadler's favorite college counseling resource! There are articles on many topics related to the college process along with scholarship and financial aid information.

Fastweb Scholarship Search

Collegeboard: Register, send scores and practice for the SAT. There are also helpful college search tools and college planning information on the website. This is also where you find information on AP tests.

ACT: Register, send scores and practice for the ACT.

Academic Assistance Resources

Khan Academy

Brain Genie

Purple Math


IXL is an immersive K-12 learning experience that provides comprehensive, standards-aligned content for math, language arts, science and social studies.


Sumdog Math

The Critical Reader


About the Counselor

Mrs. Stadler is a native New Yorker but is loving the sunshine in North Carolina. She loves reading, traveling and spending time with her family. Mrs. Stadler and her husband moved to Durham in July 2016 but purchased their first home in Oxford in March 2017. They have a newborn daughter named Charlotte Grace and 4 kittens Jax, Tara, Opie and Boo.