My True Colors

Benton P. 4th hour

Childhood

My childhood was weird and stupid for most of it. I was extremely imaginative and found it difficult to fit into the structure of school life. I reacted with great sensitivity to discordance or rejection and sought recognition. I responded to encouragement rather than competition. I appeared to be older than my years and focused on my greater interests, achieving in subjects that were mentally stimulating. I was impatient with drill and routine, questioned authority, and found it necessary to respect teachers before I could learn from them.

Relationship

I seek harmonious relationships. I am a true romantic and believe in drama, warmth, and empathy to all relationships. I enjoy the symbols of romance such as flowers, candlelight, and music and cherish the small gestures of affection. I prefer to let my head rule my heart. I dislike repetition, so it is difficult for me to continuously express feeling. I believe that once feelings are stated, they are obvious to others. I am uneasy when my emotions control me; I want to establish a relationship, leave it to maintain itself, and turn my energies to my studies, work or other interests.

Work

I am conceptual and an independent thinker. For me, work is play. I am drawn to constant challenge in careers, and like to develop models, explore ideas, or build systems to satisfy my need to deal with innovation. Once I have perfected an idea, I prefer to move on, leaving the project to be maintained and supported by others. I have a strong desire to influence others so they may lead more significant lives. I often work in the arts, communication, education, and helping professions. I am adept at motivating and interacting with others.

Leadership style

Leadership style, Expects others to express views, Assumes “family spirit”, Works to develop others’ potential, Individuals oriented, Democratic, unstructured approach, Encourages change VIA human potential, Change time allows for sense of security, Expects people to develop their potential, Expects intelligence and competence, Assumes task relevancy, Seeks ways to improve systems, Visionary, Analytical, Encourages change for improvement, Constantly “in process” of change, Expects people to follow through.

Symptoms of a bad day

symptoms of a bad day, Indecisiveness, Refusal to comply or cooperate; the silent treatment, Extreme aloofness and withdrawal, Snobbish, put-down remarks, and sarcasm, Perfectionism due to severe performance anxiety, Highly critical attitudes toward yourself or others, Attention-getting misbehaving, Lying to save face, Withdrawal, Fantasy, day-dreaming, and going into a trance, Crying and depression, Passive resistance,Yelling and screaming.