At The Crossroads

September 2015 Newsletter from Crossroads UMC

The Pastor's Perspective

Not So Secret Secrets

Not So Secret Secrets

The hack at the online dating site Ashley Madison has been in the news for several weeks now. If you haven’t heard, this particular website facilitates connections between married men and women who are looking to have an affair. The contacts of this supposedly confidential website are now public knowledge due to a computer hacker. Millions of clients are now exposed.

Like we didn’t see this coming.

Infidelity is a tale as old as time. One of the oldest written commandments, “You shall not commit adultery”(Ex.20:14), is contained in our Old Testament laws. Wisdom literature in Proverbs speaks of “drinking from your own cistern”(5:5) as a metaphor for fidelity. Jesus speaks very clearly about adultery being sinful in his sermon on the mount (Matt. 5:27-28). While adultery is not a criminal offense in most western countries, it is still grounds for divorce and property settlements. Betrayal of this sort hurts so many people in the family.

There are many origins of marriage infidelity. I believe that we don’t just wake up one day and decide to commit adultery. It’s usually a symptom of a troubled relationship long before the marriage covenant gets broken. Major changes in the family like a death or a child going to college or some other stressor begin the problems. Often there’s been a history of communication problems and lack of conflict resolution. Marriage relationship satisfaction declines. Put this together with easy availability of internet pornography and social networking and a relationship spirals out of the covenant.

There is help.

Like with bodily health, prevention is the best medicine. Crossroads UMC’s Marriage Enrichment Group starts back on September 13th at 5:00pm. This group is like low-impact exercise for your relationship. It’s a monthly gathering that helps you and your spouse check-in on your relationship. The exercises are not group therapy or counseling. It’s an evening of one-on-one activities that enrich your relationship. No matter what age and stage of marriage you are in there is something here to make your relationship more adultery-proof. I hope you’ll consider join us for the valuable monthly gathering!


Past Month's Events

From Tyler Head

Dear Crossroads Family,

I would like to thank everyone for the extremely generous contribution for my stem cell procedure fund. It's difficult to even put into words how important that much money is to us. In addition to the money donated I would also like to thank everyone for their own personal donations and volunteer work. But most importantly than either of those I thank you all for your prayers. The power of God's will is being felt everyday, and there's no price tag on spiritual support. A church should feel like a home and the members should feel like family, and that's exactly how Crossroads United Methodist is. Thank you all once again and God bless.


Tyler Head

Church Events Coming Soon

Two Important Worship Service Time Announcements

This Sunday, September 6th at 10:00am with Sunday School at 9:00am. The church office will also be closed on Monday, September 7th and reopen Tuesday, September 8th.

On September the 13th our 8:30am Worship Service will move to 9:00am. We look forward to seeing everyone there at this new, more convenient time. We're hoping this change will give everyone an extra bit of time to get to church as well as streamline our advertising as a 9:00, 10:00, and 11:00 worship time church.

Marriage Enrichment Group

On September 13th from 5:00PM—7:00PM in the Sanctuary, we’re starting back with our Marriage Enrichment Group. From newlyweds to empty nesters and blended families, anyone who wants to strengthen their marriage is invited to become a part of our monthly couples group. A typical evening includes light food, introduction to an insightful and fun couple’s exercise, and then a short time of reflection and discussion. RSVP for Childcare. Contact Rev. Zack Martin for more info at 770-388-7438 or

Crossroads 101

New to Crossroads UMC? Come join us in the Sanctuary on September 13th and 20th at 10:00am and then September 27th at 9:00am for our introductory course. Rev. Zack Martin leads these classes to give visitors and long-time attendees an overview of our church. We'll cover United Methodist beliefs and practices, Christian history, and programs at Crossroads UMC. You'll get a tour of the facilities as well! Join us for a fun and informative time together. Whether you're new to the faith, new to Crossroads UMC, or just need a refresher in the basics you'll find something in our time together. Contact: for more information. RSVP by Sept 11th at or 770-388-7438.

Exploring Arts Meeting

Exploring Arts monthly meeting is September 16th at 4:30pm in the Pathfinders Room. For more information please contact Mary Jane Lea at 770-789-5836 or

Wednesday Night Supper Program "Balancing the See Saw"

The Wednesday night supper program will be "Balancing the See Saw" by the financ committee on September 16th at 6:00PM. Come and hear an update from our finance committee about the events of the last six months. The committee will cover three main points. First, we will review the background of what happened with our financial reporting. Secondly, we will give an overview of what the committee has done to correct the issue. Thirdly, we will report on where we are headed to get back our church back onto a firm foundation. After the presentation, the committee will be able to answer any questions you may have. Please make a reservation on Sunday mornings to hear this important report.

Crossroads UMC High School Hangout

The Youth High School students meet each Wednesday at 7:00PM, at Awake Coffee Community located in Olde Town Conyers. If you are interested in attending please contact Rachel Blanchette for more information at 810-300-0770 or

Kids Club

Every Wednesday Night at 6:00PM in the Kids Room for kids K-5th grade, Kids Club introduces "Bible Black Belt: Scripture with a Kick". Come out on to earn a belt while you learn scripture. There will be a light snack supper, lesson scripture and games. Join us for lots of fun and fellowship. Contact for more information.

Crossroads Men's Club

Just a quick reminder Men's Club will not meet in September. Our next meeting will be on Saturday morning October 3rd at 8:ooam!


Good news for Happy Hearts. Instead of meeting every other month, they will now meet on the 1st Friday of every month at O'Charley's at 11:30AM.

CLEO--Christian Ladies Eating Out

CLEO meets the first Tuesday, September 1st at 12:00pm at O'Charley's! It's great food and conversation around the table.

Promise Keepers Breakfast

The Promise Keepers meet every Thursday morning at the church for breakfast at 6:00AM.

UMW Meeting Tuesday, September 15th at 6:00PM

Visit for more information.

The Piecemakers

Quilters of all ages and stages are welcome to join in every Thursday evening at 7PM in the modular unit.

Men's Breakfast

The CUMC Men meet every Wednesday morning at Betty's Restaurant at 8:00am for breakfast and fellowship.

Crossroads Shut-In List

Many of you have asked about our church members and friends who can no longer make it to Sunday Services and other fellowship events. Below is a current list with contact information if you would like to reach out to them. We ask that you keep them all in your prayers and thoughts.

Donna Peek

4421 Ga Hwy 20

Conyers, Ga 30012


James and Barbara Finlayson

1502 Renaissance Dr.

Conyers, Ga 30012


Beatrice Hester

1811 Spring Street

Conyers, Ga 30012


Ruby Straley

1611 Pratt Rd

Covington, Ga 30014


Katherine Edwards

3884 LaVista Rd, RM 115

Tucker, GA 30084


Jimmy and Anne Jones

560 Edwards Rd

Oxford, GA 30054


Louise Shirreffs

1360 Enchanted Lake Drive NE

Conyers, GA 30012

770-313-8411 or 770-313-6142.

Effe Ashong

1500 Callaway Loop

Conyers, GA 30012


Anne Guest ( Rockdale HealthCare Rehab.)

Room: # 204-B

1510 Reniassance Dr
Conyers, GA 30012


Shirley Rice

601 Breedlove Dr. #307

Monroe, GA 30655


Upcoming Worship Information

Worship Volunteers

September 6th

One Service Sunday - Labor Day


Announcements: Jim Miller

Scripture: Brenda Hutson

Communion Servers: Joel Crissman, Nancy Crissman and Peggy White

September 13th

9:00AM Scripture: Joyce Howe

11:00AM Scripture: Steve Brinson

Acolytes: Evan Boyd and Grant Preiss

September 20th

9:00AM Scripture: Artis Spencer

11:00AM Scripture: Susan Brinson

Acolytes: Hannah Hanson and Clayton Compton

September 27th

One Service Sunday - Varsity Sunday 10:00AM

Scripture: Susan Smith

Acolytes: Mallory Hammonds and Dawson Hammonds

Happy Birthday! September 2015

Brandon Thomas 09/05

Avery Reagan 09/06

Jay Howe 09/08

Laura Jean Christian 09/10

Abbie Walter 09/12

Martha Bryant 09/13

Bruce Carey 09/15

Irene Blair 09/15

Theresa Jones 09/16

Gordy Wright 09/17

Kim Gillespie 09/18

Patsey Schaal 09/19

Felton Floyd 09/19

Renee Laird 09/19

Marshall Compton 09/21

George Okafor 09/22

Nicole Head 09/23

Sally Hinkle 09/23

David Elder 09/26

Savannah Martin 09/26

Mary Ann Wine 09/27

Debbie Carney 09/28

Alison Sinclair 09/28

Madison Hammonds 09/30

October 2015 Newsletter Deadline

The deadline to get information into the October 2015 Newsletter is Friday, September 25th by 2PM. Please submit all articles, information, and pictures to or call 770-388-7438.

If you wish to receive a mailed copy of the church's monthly newsletter, please contact the church office at or 770-388-7438.