Are you in an abusive relationship?
Cycle of Abuse
2) Tension Builds. He/ she starts acting different. They start bossing you around, telling you what you should wear, how to do your make up, who to talk/ hang out with.
3) Explosion. It's too late, you're in too deep. Whenever you think of trying to escape or stand up for yourself you have a back thought of what he might do to you. What he might say or do, you feel weak and helpless.