Tobin Lee Grinder
What is an ENFP-T?
The life of the party, but not interested in the sheer excitement and pleasure of the moment. Instead they enjoy the emotional and social connections. Charming, independent, energetic and compassionate.
Independent to a Fault
As it says on https://www.16personalities.com/enfp-strengths-and-weaknesses, they want to be seen as highly independent masters of their own fates. I often find that I will go to great lengths to hide my emotions from others. I don't want me to know that I feel that I am not the master of my own fate.