Help From the Fairy Counselor

By: Sagan Jensen

Dear Fairy Counselor...

I have read your coulmn for years, but I never thought that I would be writing to you. I've tried going to meetings of "Women who love too much" but I'm still hurting, so I thought maybe you could help me. My problem is that the guy I love doesn't want to be in the same room with me. How can I get him to love me? what can I do to make love me as I love him? How do I get him to want to be mine, instead of wishing I would die?!


Lovesick Puppy

Dear Lovesick Puppy...

I read your letter, and I know how you feel. It really does hurt when you love somebody that doesn't feel the same. Being insecure doesn't help. I Have a few tips that I think will help you.

You might not think that you're pretty, but you are. Accept the way you are. You'll be happier in life, for you won't feel like you have to change yourself . Just don't get over confident. No one likes a woman who thinks she's the gods' gift to the world.

It's always hard to get over a person you love, but it's possible. If he doesn't love you, then obviously he's not "the one," and he doesn't deserve you. Moving on is the best thing to do. You'll meet better people when you open your eyes to the world. Sad thing is, you'll be lonely in the time that you're single. Just remember that there are better people: who will care about you, who will want to be with you, and will treat you like a princess.

I wish you luck in love, and may you be blessed! Confidence is key! There are other fish in the sea, my dear. There is someone out there for you, even if you can't see it.