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"Relationships are the agents of change." Dr. Bruce Perry
March 21 - March 25, 2022
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OUR GRAY HAWK FAMILY works together to help students feel safe, loved, and inspired so they can be empowered learners and engaged citizens.
Grade Cards were sent home on Friday

PANORAMA BEGINS THIS WEEK
These will be administered to our students on the following days between 9-15 - 10:15.
Monday - 3rd grade
Tuesday - 4th grade
Wednesday - 5th grade
Kindergarten Round Up was a Big Success
THANK YOU BLEF!


State Assessments Begin the Week of April 4
I do want to mention some procedures for 3rd through 5th grade teachers that may be different from what you are used to doing at BIS. I have large envelopes made with each of your names on it. Inside the envelope are individual tickets for your students, your teacher scripts, resource sheets that are allowed by the state, and your daily access code. I will place the daily access code in their envelope each day.
On the day that you are testing, you will need to come into my office, find your envelope, and SIGN IT OUT with your name. Please DO NOT pick up anyone else's envelope for them. It is crucial that you are signing it out yourself and taking it. This is a part of Test Security. At the end of the day, you will bring your envelope back with your student tickets back in the envelope. You will also need to include ANY scratch paper that was used so that I may ensure that it is destroyed at the end of each day.
I would like to avoid using classified staff to proctor state assessments if at all possible. However, if we must utilize classified staff, please notify me ahead of time (think days... not moments) so I may meet with them. If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to let me know.

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Featured Literature
This week we’ll take a look at those female scientists whose impacts are still felt today, as well as new women that continue to break new ground in all areas!
Our featured book this week is Hidden Figures: The True Story of Four Black Women and the Space Race by Margot Lee Shetterly.
Dorothy Vaughan, Mary Jackson, Katherine Johnson, and Christine Darden were good at math…really good.
They participated in some of NASA's greatest successes, like providing the calculations for America's first journeys into space. And they did so during a time when being black and a woman limited what they could do. But they worked hard. They persisted. And they used their genius minds to change the world.
I Am Marie Curie by Brad MeltzerMarie Curie was a physicist and chemist who was the first female to win a Nobel Peace Prize. She is also the first person and the only woman to win 2 Nobel Prizes. One in chemistry and one in physics. She was a pioneer in the field of radioactivity and cancer research. | Shark LadyThe True Story of How Eugenie Clark Became the Ocean’s Most Fearless Scientist by Jess KeatingEugenie Clark fell in love with sharks from the first moment she saw them at the aquarium. She couldn't imagine anything more exciting than studying these graceful creatures. But Eugenie quickly discovered that many people believed sharks to be ugly and scary―and they didn't think women should be scientists. | Building Zaha :The Story of Architect Zaha Hadid by Victoria Tentler-KrylovbyThe city of Baghdad was full of thinkers, artists, and scientists, the littlest among them Zaha Hadid. Zaha knew from a young age that she wanted to be an architect. She set goals for herself and followed them against all odds. A woman in a man's world, and a person of color in a white field, Zaha was met with resistance at every turn. When critics called her a diva and claimed her ideas were unbuildable, she didn't let their judgments stop her from setting goals and achieving them one by one. |
I Am Marie Curie by Brad Meltzer
Marie Curie was a physicist and chemist who was the first female to win a Nobel Peace Prize. She is also the first person and the only woman to win 2 Nobel Prizes. One in chemistry and one in physics. She was a pioneer in the field of radioactivity and cancer research.
Shark LadyThe True Story of How Eugenie Clark Became the Ocean’s Most Fearless Scientist by Jess Keating
Eugenie Clark fell in love with sharks from the first moment she saw them at the aquarium. She couldn't imagine anything more exciting than studying these graceful creatures. But Eugenie quickly discovered that many people believed sharks to be ugly and scary―and they didn't think women should be scientists.
Building Zaha :The Story of Architect Zaha Hadid by Victoria Tentler-Krylovby
The city of Baghdad was full of thinkers, artists, and scientists, the littlest among them Zaha Hadid. Zaha knew from a young age that she wanted to be an architect. She set goals for herself and followed them against all odds. A woman in a man's world, and a person of color in a white field, Zaha was met with resistance at every turn. When critics called her a diva and claimed her ideas were unbuildable, she didn't let their judgments stop her from setting goals and achieving them one by one.
PROMOTING DIVERSITY
This past week, OUR GRAY HAWKS celebrated World Down Syndrome Day by honoring OUR friend Stella, a kindergartner at Gray Hawk. We learned all about Stella's likes and dislikes and why she is so special to OUR entire community. Additionally we learned about four other people that have impacted OUR world that also just happen to have Down Syndrome as well. Take a moment to learn more about these amazing people.
OUR Stella -
One phrase the Down Syndrome community uses is “More Alike than different.”
It’s a reminder that we have more things in common than we have differences.
Stella loves: taking pictures with her camera and iPad, helping with chores at home like feeding her dog, and cooking with her mom. Stella loves to sing and be silly. She loves to make people laugh!
Stella is sensitive to people's feelings like when they are sad or are hurt. It makes her sad and she likes to give hugs to help them feel better. Stella does not like carnivals, especially the loud noises that come from the rides and she does not like to ride the ride because she gets motion sickness.
Sometimes people can be unkind and treat her like a baby because she can't say many words. People with Down Syndrome generally have weaker muscles in their bodies. They have to work very hard to make their muscles in their mouth work to make the sounds to talk.
Stella also has a condition called Apraxia of Speech, something even typical kids can have. Stella’s brain understands what people say to her. Stella’s brain has a hard time telling the muscles in her mouth to move the right way to make the right sound.
The best thing you can do to celebrate. World Down Syndrome Day is to go out of your way to be kind to someone. Take a minute to make someone feel included, and make them feel like they matter.
Let's learn some more about others that have Down Syndrome below.

Stella Meyer, Gray Hawk Extraordinaire
Madeline Stuart, ModelToday we are excited to tell you all about Madeline Stuart born on November 13, 1996 in Australia. She has been described as the first professional model with Down Syndrome. When Madeline was just ten days old her heart stopped and she had to have surgery to keep her alive. From that day on Madeline’s family vowed to help her live life to the fullest. Madeline attended a fashion show when she was 18 and fell in love with modeling. She posted one of her first modeling pictures on social media and got 100,000 followers overnight. Soon after that she launched her own fashion line called Twenty One Reasons Why by Madeline Stuart. She continues to be an advocate for others with Down Syndrome and works hard with numerous other charities to give back to her community. | Colette Divitto, Founder of Collettey's CookiesTodays featured person is Colette Divitto. Colette was born in Boston, Massachusetts in 1990. For the longest time, she applied for jobs but no one would hire her, so when she was 25 years old she decided to open up her own business with the help of her mom and sister. She started Collettey’s Cookies and was selling cookies at the Golden Goose Market, a store in her neighborhood in Boston. She sold 100 bags of cookies her first week and charged $7.00 per bag. She now fills orders all over the country. Most recently she had to fill over 4,000 orders… each order had a dozen cookies. That is almost 50,000 cookies that she had to make. She is a woman in business that also just happens to have Down Syndrome. | John Cronin, Founder of John's Crazy SocksJohn Cronin’s story began in 2016 when he was in his final year of high school. John was trying to figure out what he could do after graduating and nothing really seemed to fit. One day he decided that he wanted to go into business with his dad but they were not sure exactly what kind of business they could start. All John knew was that he wanted a “fun store”. They tried a couple of different things including starting their own food truck. The problem was that neither one of them could cook. They soon decided that since John had worn crazy socks his life, that they would sell socks. In their first month, they completed over 452 orders and earned $13,000 in profit. They started John's Crazy Socks with one simple mission: Spreading Happiness! Today John’s Crazy Socks Company has over 2,000 different pairs of socks to sell and they are committed to donating 5% of their earnings to the Special Olympics. Check out johnscrazysocks.com and pick up some today! |
Madeline Stuart, Model
Today we are excited to tell you all about Madeline Stuart born on November 13, 1996 in Australia. She has been described as the first professional model with Down Syndrome. When Madeline was just ten days old her heart stopped and she had to have surgery to keep her alive. From that day on Madeline’s family vowed to help her live life to the fullest. Madeline attended a fashion show when she was 18 and fell in love with modeling. She posted one of her first modeling pictures on social media and got 100,000 followers overnight. Soon after that she launched her own fashion line called Twenty One Reasons Why by Madeline Stuart. She continues to be an advocate for others with Down Syndrome and works hard with numerous other charities to give back to her community.
Colette Divitto, Founder of Collettey's Cookies
Todays featured person is Colette Divitto. Colette was born in Boston, Massachusetts in 1990. For the longest time, she applied for jobs but no one would hire her, so when she was 25 years old she decided to open up her own business with the help of her mom and sister. She started Collettey’s Cookies and was selling cookies at the Golden Goose Market, a store in her neighborhood in Boston. She sold 100 bags of cookies her first week and charged $7.00 per bag. She now fills orders all over the country. Most recently she had to fill over 4,000 orders… each order had a dozen cookies. That is almost 50,000 cookies that she had to make. She is a woman in business that also just happens to have Down Syndrome.
John Cronin, Founder of John's Crazy Socks
John Cronin’s story began in 2016 when he was in his final year of high school. John was trying to figure out what he could do after graduating and nothing really seemed to fit. One day he decided that he wanted to go into business with his dad but they were not sure exactly what kind of business they could start. All John knew was that he wanted a “fun store”. They tried a couple of different things including starting their own food truck. The problem was that neither one of them could cook.
They soon decided that since John had worn crazy socks his life, that they would sell socks. In their first month, they completed over 452 orders and earned $13,000 in profit. They started John's Crazy Socks with one simple mission: Spreading Happiness! Today John’s Crazy Socks Company has over 2,000 different pairs of socks to sell and they are committed to donating 5% of their earnings to the Special Olympics. Check out johnscrazysocks.com and pick up some today!
Neuro News
This week I am attaching an article by Dr. Perry about Maltreatment and the Developing Child: How Early Childhood Experience Shapes Children and Culture. I think it is a fantastic article that provides some insight into the developing child and the impact that adversity has on the brain at a very young age. I would also recommend checking out some of his books including his latest that he co-authored with Oprah entitled "What Happened to You?"
What Happened to You - Oprah Winfrey and Dr. Bruce Perry Our earliest experiences shape our lives far down the road, and What Happened to You? provides powerful scientific and emotional insights into the behavioral patterns so many of us struggle to understand. “Through this lens we can build a renewed sense of personal self-worth and ultimately recalibrate our responses to circumstances, situations, and relationships. It is, in other words, the key to reshaping our very lives.”―Oprah Winfrey This book is going to change the way you see your life. Have you ever wondered "Why did I do that?" or "Why can't I just control my behavior?" Others may judge our reactions and think, "What's wrong with that person?" When questioning our emotions, it's easy to place the blame on ourselves; holding ourselves and those around us to an impossible standard. It's time we started asking a different question. Through deeply personal conversations, Oprah Winfrey and renowned brain and trauma expert Dr. Bruce Perry offer a groundbreaking and profound shift from asking “What’s wrong with you?” to “What happened to you?” Here, Winfrey shares stories from her own past, understanding through experience the vulnerability that comes from facing trauma and adversity at a young age. In conversation throughout the book, she and Dr. Perry focus on understanding people, behavior, and ourselves. It’s a subtle but profound shift in our approach to trauma, and it’s one that allows us to understand our pasts in order to clear a path to our future―opening the door to resilience and healing in a proven, powerful way. | The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog - Dr. Bruce PerryIn this classic work of developmental psychology, renowned psychiatrist and the co-author of the #1 New York Times bestseller What Happened to You? reveals how trauma affects children—and outlines the path to recovery. Child psychiatrist Dr. Bruce D. Perry has helped children faced with unimaginable horror: genocide survivors, murder witnesses, kidnapped teenagers, and victims of family violence. In the classic The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog, Dr. Perry tells their stories of trauma and transformation and shares their lessons of courage, humanity, and hope. Deftly combining unforgettable case histories with his own compassionate, insightful strategies for rehabilitation, Perry explains what happens to children’s brain when they are exposed to extreme stress—and reveals the unexpected measures that can be taken to ease such pain and help them grow into healthy adults. Only when we understand the science of the mind and the power of love and nurturing can we hope to heal the spirit of even the most wounded child. | Born for Love - Dr. Bruce Perry and Maia SzalavitzFrom birth, when babies' fingers instinctively cling to those of adults, their bodies and brains seek an intimate connection, a bond made possible by empathy—the ability to love and to share the feelings of others. In this provocative book, psychiatrist Bruce D. Perry and award-winning science journalist Maia Szalavitz interweave research and stories from Perry's practice with cutting-edge scientific studies and historical examples to explain how empathy develops, why it is essential for our development into healthy adults, and how to raise kids with empathy while navigating threats from technological change and other forces in the modern world. Perry and Szalavitz show that compassion underlies the qualities that make society work—trust, altruism, collaboration, love, charity—and how difficulties related to empathy are key factors in social problems such as war, crime, racism, and mental illness. Even physical health, from infectious diseases to heart attacks, is deeply affected by our human connections to one another. As Born for Love reveals, recent changes in technology, child-rearing practices, education, and lifestyles are starting to rob children of necessary human contact and deep relationships—the essential foundation for empathy and a caring, healthy society. Sounding an important warning bell, Born for Love offers practical ideas for combating the negative influences of modern life and fostering positive social change to benefit us all. |
What Happened to You - Oprah Winfrey and Dr. Bruce Perry
“Through this lens we can build a renewed sense of personal self-worth and ultimately recalibrate our responses to circumstances, situations, and relationships. It is, in other words, the key to reshaping our very lives.”―Oprah Winfrey
This book is going to change the way you see your life.
Have you ever wondered "Why did I do that?" or "Why can't I just control my behavior?" Others may judge our reactions and think, "What's wrong with that person?" When questioning our emotions, it's easy to place the blame on ourselves; holding ourselves and those around us to an impossible standard. It's time we started asking a different question.
Through deeply personal conversations, Oprah Winfrey and renowned brain and trauma expert Dr. Bruce Perry offer a groundbreaking and profound shift from asking “What’s wrong with you?” to “What happened to you?”
Here, Winfrey shares stories from her own past, understanding through experience the vulnerability that comes from facing trauma and adversity at a young age. In conversation throughout the book, she and Dr. Perry focus on understanding people, behavior, and ourselves. It’s a subtle but profound shift in our approach to trauma, and it’s one that allows us to understand our pasts in order to clear a path to our future―opening the door to resilience and healing in a proven, powerful way.
The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog - Dr. Bruce Perry
In this classic work of developmental psychology, renowned psychiatrist and the co-author of the #1 New York Times bestseller What Happened to You? reveals how trauma affects children—and outlines the path to recovery.
"Fascinating and upbeat.... Dr. Perry is both a world-class creative scientist and a compassionate therapist." –Mary Pipher, PhD, author of Reviving Ophelia
How does trauma affect a child's mind—and how can that mind recover?
Child psychiatrist Dr. Bruce D. Perry has helped children faced with unimaginable horror: genocide survivors, murder witnesses, kidnapped teenagers, and victims of family violence. In the classic The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog, Dr. Perry tells their stories of trauma and transformation and shares their lessons of courage, humanity, and hope. Deftly combining unforgettable case histories with his own compassionate, insightful strategies for rehabilitation, Perry explains what happens to children’s brain when they are exposed to extreme stress—and reveals the unexpected measures that can be taken to ease such pain and help them grow into healthy adults. Only when we understand the science of the mind and the power of love and nurturing can we hope to heal the spirit of even the most wounded child.
Born for Love - Dr. Bruce Perry and Maia Szalavitz
From birth, when babies' fingers instinctively cling to those of adults, their bodies and brains seek an intimate connection, a bond made possible by empathy—the ability to love and to share the feelings of others.
In this provocative book, psychiatrist Bruce D. Perry and award-winning science journalist Maia Szalavitz interweave research and stories from Perry's practice with cutting-edge scientific studies and historical examples to explain how empathy develops, why it is essential for our development into healthy adults, and how to raise kids with empathy while navigating threats from technological change and other forces in the modern world.
Perry and Szalavitz show that compassion underlies the qualities that make society work—trust, altruism, collaboration, love, charity—and how difficulties related to empathy are key factors in social problems such as war, crime, racism, and mental illness. Even physical health, from infectious diseases to heart attacks, is deeply affected by our human connections to one another.
As Born for Love reveals, recent changes in technology, child-rearing practices, education, and lifestyles are starting to rob children of necessary human contact and deep relationships—the essential foundation for empathy and a caring, healthy society. Sounding an important warning bell, Born for Love offers practical ideas for combating the negative influences of modern life and fostering positive social change to benefit us all.