I have read your column for years, but i never thought that I would be writing to you. I've tried going to meetings of "Women Who Love Too Much" but i'm still hurting, so i thought maybe you could help me. My problem is that the guy I love doesn't want to be in the same room with me, and the worst part, he is in love with my best friend. You may think that's bad but this is just worse, the guy my best friend loves is in love with me. Should I still try to make the guy I admire, love me or betray my best friend and love who she loves? ~Mariah~
Your story is very peculiar. I think your love triangle is the most interesting yet, but before you make your choice, I'm going to let you know the out comes of the choices you may choose. Here are your choices: fall in love with Lysander, stay in love with Demetrius or, stay alone until someone new comes along.
You may want to go with the easiest one, to fall in love with Lysander, the person your best friend loves. Sure, you may be in love forever but your best friend could be back there making a plan for revenge.
If that choice scares you, just stay put and love who you've been loving, Demetrius. He may like your best friend but if he realizes how your mind wont change, maybe his mind will. Or he'll just think you're an unwanted puppy and stop talking to you altogether.
Mariah, I hope that my advice helps you with your love triangle. Just remember all the out comes of the complicated choices ~Mrs.Bieber3194~