Counselor's Corner

Oxford Prep's School Counseling Services

Words From The Counselor

"In spite of everything I still believe that people are really good at heart." - Anne Frank

During the week of January 22 - January 26, Oxford Prep participated in the Great Kindness Challenge. Throughout the week, students engaged in activities aiming to help spread kindness in our school community. 7th grader Matthew Fulcher was the winner, completing all 50 items on the Great Kindness Challenge Checklist. Congrats Matthew!

This week is National School Counseling Week. National School Counseling week is a week set aside to raise awareness about Comprehensive School Counseling Programs. The goal of the Comprehensive School Counseling Program at Oxford Prep is to address the needs of all students by helping them to acquire competencies in personal, academic and career development domains. Students need skills in these domains to succeed in school and in life. While parents often do a great job in teaching many of these skills, it is nice to have reinforcement at school as well. Oxford Prep's Comprehensive School Counseling Program is made up of classroom guidance, small group activities, individual counseling and college and career planning. Students are referred by teachers or parents for individual and group counseling. If you want to learn more about Oxford Prep's Comprehensive School Counseling Program please contact me.

Mrs. Alexis Stadler, School Counselor/504 Coordinator

Office: 919-690-0360 EXT: 102


Conference Hours: Available by

Coffee with the Counselor: Impact of Social Media and Communicating with your Teenager

Friday, Feb. 23rd, 7:30am

6041 Landis Road

Oxford, NC

Please join me for coffee and conversation on the impact of social media on your teenager and effective ways of communicating with them.

RSVPs are enabled for this event.

Parent Workshops Spring 2018

Please make plans to attend the following parent workshops:

  • 8th Grade: HS Graduation Requirements & Preparing for College - April 3 @ 6pm.
  • 9th Grade: HS Graduation Requirements & Preparing for College - April 3 @ 7pm.
  • 10th Grade: HS Graduation Requirements & Preparing for College - April 5 @ 6pm.
  • 11th Grade: Preparing for Senior Year - April 5 @ 7pm

Program Spotlight: July Experience at Davidson College

July Experience is a powerful three-week academic immersion experience for rising high school juniors and seniors on the campus of Davidson College. Students live in dorms with a diverse cohort of participants and Davidson student mentors, take two courses from Davidson faculty, and have the opportunity to participate in workshops with admission staff. Opportunities are available to explore the town, spend time at our lake campus, and visit Charlotte throughout the program. Find out more about the program and apply by March 28th for the summer 2018 session.

Small Group Counseling Available

The purpose of small groups is to bring students with similar needs or concerns together to share, problem solve, and connect with their peers to enhance their social and emotional development. This is NOT a form of therapy, but rather an outlet where students can express themselves in a safe space.

Students may participate in the following groups:

Anxiety & Coping Skills

Motivation & Effort

Conflict Resolution

Academic Improvement

Girls Group (self-esteem, female empowerment, positive relationships)

Boys Group (positive relationships, behavior management)

Please contact Mrs. Stadler for more information.

College Planning Links

It is never too early to start planning for college. The following websites have great resources for college planning from middle school through 12th grade.

College Foundation of North Carolina

CFNC Planning Timeline: Gives steps students should be taking each year to prepare for their future.

JLV College Counseling: This is Mrs. Stadler's favorite college counseling resource! There are articles on many topics related to the college process along with scholarship and financial aid information.

Fastweb Scholarship Search

Collegeboard: Register, send scores and practice for the SAT. There are also helpful college search tools and college planning information on the website. This is also where you find information on AP tests.

ACT: Register, send scores and practice for the ACT.

Academic Assistance Resources

Khan Academy

Brain Genie

Purple Math


IXL is an immersive K-12 learning experience that provides comprehensive, standards-aligned content for math, language arts, science and social studies.


Sumdog Math

The Critical Reader


About the Counselor

Mrs. Stadler is a native New Yorker but loves her new home, North Carolina. She loves reading, traveling and spending time with her family. Mrs. Stadler and her husband moved to Durham in July 2016 but purchased their first home in Oxford in March 2017. They have a newborn daughter named Charlotte Grace and 4 kittens Jax, Tara, Opie and Boo.