the magic times

love advice from maya horan

problem of the week

Dear Mrs. Horan,

i have read your column for years, but i never thought i would be writing to you. I've tried going to meetings for "women who love too much" but im still hurting, so i thought maybe you could help me. my problem is that the guy i love doesn't want to be in the same room with me, he loves my best friend. my best friend is dating a guy who loves me and i just dont like him but he is stalking me and my friend doesnt know. i need major help like, now.

sincerely, forever alone

our answer

dear forever alone,

i have read your letter and i will try my best to solve the problem. so you love man who loves your best friend who loves another man who loves you? seems to me you have yourself stuck in what we call a "love square".