Article about bullying

The truth about bullying

Bullying

Ever wonder why people bully. It's a question thats on a person's mind. Alot of people don't want to be bystanders but they are just scared of what will happend to them. In a case like this it's best to stand up for yourselves.


People can direct frustration, hurt, anger or difficulty at home or in class to you by bullying. Even lack of attention from friends, parents or teacher can make a person bully you. It can be to feel popular and seem as tough or cool or in charge. Some kids learn bullying from parents, brothers or sister even friends. They see them getting their way by being angry or pushing people around. Some people do this because they are victims themselves.


Some bully because they are happy to see their classmates depressed, sad or hurt. Some watch a lot of violent films and video games that can make a person try out violent things. They tent to do this on people that seem smaller or weaker. Some are bullied for no good reason. But it's sometimes because they are different in some way. Like how they talk or the size of their name. Some get bullied cause they just won't stand up for themself.


The main reason why people get bullied is because of their size (too big too small too short too tall). Even their skin colour. Special need. A disability of some sort. If a person has bad temper they bully the person so they will get angry. Or people with no friends. People will tease you for an embarrassing event you got involved in.


Everyone thinks that bullying only has affects on the victims. No it's not just the bully thats being affected. The bully itself is being affected. These are the affects of the victim. They lose interest in school. They suffer eating and sleeping. They lose interest in activities they loved. Some end up commiting suicide.


These are the affects of the bully. If the victim does not stand up than the bully will take this into adulthood. They will start to take alcohol and drugs at a young age. They will drop out of school. If they ever end up having a family they will will become abusers towards their spouse and children.


If your being bullied in school you should start to get involved in bigger groups so you have more power then the bully. Or tell an adult. Now a days bullies use tec to bully. It's called cyber bullying. Now if you inform the police they will find the person.


If this ever happens it's best to tell a adult. That is the best advice you could give a victim.


Thank you.