Points of Pride
October 20, 2017
Instructional Focus:
I had my first every parent teacher conference today for my son, and I have to tell you I was nervous! I have done hundreds as a teacher/administrator, but sitting on the other side of the table can be just as tough. The following thoughts were racing through my head: What if I am not doing enough to push him? What if I have "that" kid? What if he is not being kind to others? What if she is noticing something wrong with him? What if he is telling her EVERYTHING that is happening at home? :) Ultimately, each of our parents has entrusted us with their most prized "possession." I know for me, my kids do not just have my heart, they are my heart. I am sure I am not unique in this. Keep this perspective during your conferences.
I know for many of us, this is one of our least favorite weeks during the school year. On top of being long hours, many of us are nervous about possible confrontation. This leads us to either avoid difficult conversations, or get so anxiety-ridden that things come out the wrong way. Use the following tips to get you through:
- Remember that no matter the circumstance, teachers and parents are ALWAYS on the same team. We both want what's best for kids. We may have different philosophies on how to get there, but we both have the same goal.
- When giving information that could be tough to hear, JUST state the facts. Keep your opinions out of it. Nobody can argue facts! Let parents connect the dots. Be the reporter of information, not the analyst.
- Let every parent hear a story or outstanding characteristic about their child. There is good in everyone (even though we have to search extra hard for some :)
- Leave time in the conference to ask if the parents have any questions. This time is crucial to establishing a home/school partnership. Don't just talk to them, talk with them.
- Just breathe, we get an AMAZING soup dinner out of it :)
- If you want to use me as a sounding board for a conversation, or if you want tips on how to present some information. I would be more than happy to help. I am also more than willing to attend any conference you would like.
Thanks for all you do!
Robert
Halloween Parties....
Whether they dress up or not is a teacher decision, but again, please limit it to the end of the day. Remind students that there are to be no weapons or masks and dress code rules still apply.
Student Retention....
Nutrition Offerings....
Below you will find a flyer from our nutrition department which lists potential classes that you can sign up for from kindergarten – 6th grade. These are at no cost and there
is contact information on the flyer if you are interested in setting up a time for your class or grade
level to receive these free nutrition classes.
Typing Practice....
I hope we will see improvement in this essential life skill.
Dandylion Lunch...
After doing it, I didn't like that some kids were missing class time, and having all those students at once, didn't allow me to truly celebrate each student.
Moving forward, if you have a student that earns the Dandylion lunch, bring your student down during your lunch time, but instead of eating at the tables, I will be on the stage. After they are done eating, they can go play outside. This will allow me to get to know the students better, and maximize academic time.
Next Dandylion lunch is 11/2.
National Make a Difference Day...
Central Christian Church has chosen to partner with Settler's Point Elementary to celebrate. They are expecting between 100-150 members of their congregation to show up and help "beautify" our campus from 9:00-12:00.
If you are able to come help out, I would love the extra hands, as Dad's Club and I have brainstormed some pretty ambitious tasks (list included below).